Options Menu: Forum Imagine you are counseling a couple who have been married for twenty years. When this couple was dating the female was not a Christian and did not practice abstinence; having several sexual partners prior to marriage. The male was a Christian and practiced abstinence prior to marriage. The marriage has been good except in terms of their sexual relationship. The husband is unable to forgive his wife for her past sexual experiences. Thoughts of her past sexual partners intrude and he constantly compares himself to her past partners, even though he has never known them. How would you help this couple?